Relationships are complicated things. As Joe Rogan said on his Podcast, "some people are really fucking careful what relationships they get into". And then there are people like me. I won't say that I fall into relationships, but the fact is I absolutely do. If I have a profile in my past, it's that I don't usually know the person I am going to date before a relatively short period of time before. That short period of time can be really quite brief.
The benefit of getting to know someone before you start dating them is that you can establish if your compatible. But, what makes people compatible. Is it good conversation? Is it similar activities and interests, or is it simply attraction? I would say for a lasting relationship it must be the first two, and that the last one simply grows on you.
But you meet all types during your experiences in this world, and you see all types when you watch films, or even read books. That means that there is no template no one solution for all the different approaches to dating, or mating.
What do people look for in a partner? I think someone who has a passion for what they are doing is the most attractive quality. If your doing something that don't really love than you can't be that happy. Although people do things they don't like all the time. It's best to be in the zone and be really into whatever your doing, and then the time will pass quickly. You want the time to pass quickly when you are working, and slowly when you are with a loved one or on vacation. In a sense you could say that the happiest person is the person who things pass smoothly and easily. Isn't there something tragic about that. Count no man happy who is still alive, for misfortune might soon befall him, I think that is from some Greek Tragedy.
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